There's this one situation that happened to me a few days ago. It takes time for me to think about this situation. I went it again and again in my head and I couldn't make sense to it. The situation was like...a message or somewhat. I cannot place it in my mind and it keep whirling around me and so, I talk to my father about it. As I try to get some sleep last night, with my father thoughts echoing around my mind, I thought that this situation was a decent thing to write in my blog today.
It was school at that day and I was sitting down at my desk, reading my textbook while waiting for the teacher to show up. Then, this asshole guy show up at the front of desk. Well, he's lucky that I don't know his name or not I would post his name on here with big bold red letters. Anyway, he asked me what I got for PMR. It is a routine that I do and it's kind of inevitable to not to say, "Oh, I didn't take PMR." Before I could even finish my sentence, he cut off and said, "Hah! You don't take PMR," and stalked off. Most of the time, I would have felt offended or cried because I have a sensitive soul. But, instead, surprisingly, I smiled at myself and said, "Funny."
As I replay that situation again and again, I felt like I should have said something better like "F you in the A and have a nice day," like Markiplier did when he was some of his games or meet some ghosty-goo. But, I rethink again. I might have offend that guy. I don't like breaking hearts, not even a scratch. I know he is a boy and a dick, but offending people was not my thing to do.
So, let's say you in a situation that makes you say this one comment and somehow the person whom you're talking too pulls a sour face. What do you do? Do you just leave it and pretend, "Oh, I didn't see that,"? Or, you'll say your sorry? People in the right minds would have said their sorry, but some people are so clueless in their surroundings that they even know they had offended someone and that's a sin. Well, to me in most part. You have to be aware what's happening around you, so you don't make a silly mistake...or a permanent one.
If you have offended someone, say your sorry. I know the person you just offended will say, "It's okay," but you don't know what he or she thinking at that time, so make your sure your sorry sound genuine or give a reason why you made that comment. Really, "sorry" is powerful because "sorry" doesn't mean "Oh, yeah I offended you sorry, won't happen again." I know it means like that, but it has MORE meaning. "Sorry" it's a way of rebuilding the relationship or connection between you and the other person. Okay, let's say your is a picket fence and you some guy. You had offended someone. It will looks like you had destroyed the picket fence. When you say your sorry, it will looks like that you are rebuilding the fence back. Something like that.
Okay, let's say you end up in this situation like me only worse. People bully you and someone make some stupid crappy jokes about you. The first thing you have to keep in mind was not to use violence. Violence doesn't answer everything. Of course, you have to stand up for yourself, but really don't punch the person in the face. It will make you end up in the principal office or jail. You have to use something funny to ward off those stupid jokes. Say something funny or something reassuring that makes the bully think, "Aw, this is not fun." Okay, let's say you are not some guy who makes jokes. It is best to tell an adult or a reassuring friend about this problem, so both you and the person you consult with find the solution of the problem. Remember don't put a problem at the back in your mind. Solve the problem today.
Happy January People!
Happy School year too!
Wish Well Wisher
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